Sunday, 25 March 2018

Everything that happens in your life is a product of your decisions



“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says ‘I’m Possible’! “ – Audrey Hepburn

“I can’t change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination” – Jimmy Dean.

“I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shots and missed. I’ve failed over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed” – Michael Jordon.

Audrey, Jimmy & Michael have indeed quoted meaningful words that motivate you, but the point is the relevance of these quotes with your situation. So, for you guys reading this I am sure that either one of the three or two of the three or may be all of them might be apt to your current situation you  encounter, but are you willing to accept and adapt these quotes into your practical life ?

Answer is, patience is the key. You should still be focused on your work and not compromise on its quality. Your work is what gave you your identity, this is what you were recognized and known for, your work is what made you walk proud with your head held high. People around you would flood in negativity vibes, things that demotivate, that make you lose track of work. Neglect, ignore and scorn those talks and continue to stay focused on your job and give a deaf ear to all of those demotivating talks. Never open a door and entertain all of this as it would unquestionably hinder your work and performance.

Grab your gear, sit back tight and let your work speak always. Never permit any of this to impact your work. A bird never flies high always, a boxer never wins all of his matches, a racer never crosses the finish line always. There needs to be a loss, a downfall, a dip in the curve, that’s the reason why the sun sets, so that it can rise again the next day and give us a fresh start reminding us that you need to fall down in order to get up. That’s how life is, you cannot change your fate or destiny, what is written in your name will happen and can’t be edited. Life has no erase or an undo option; we need to go with the flow. You cannot expect a silver lining all the time for all that glitters is definitely not Gold.

We are in a generation where people go haywire on motivational quotes.

You get hurt with your relationship and by your loved one, search for ‘Positive Break up quotes’.

You feel that God isn’t doing any good to you, search for ‘Biblical quotes’.

You don’t get a promotion at work, search for ‘Motivational quotes’.

 I mean, seriously, how on earth is this going to help you? Do you think that by just reading a quote from Instagram or Pinterest or whatever source you use  is going to help you achieve your goal? No man, No! you are just wasting your precious time searching on all of these quotes. This is just going to soothe your inner mind but isn’t going to give you any results. Now, don’t tend to argue on my statement, if you still persist on doing that then answer me this…

How consistent have you been in implementing these quotes in your life and able to improvise your move ?

Did you just get demotivated by one quote that you started searching for another one ?

The point here is simple, if your mind asks you a question, use the same mind to find its answers. If you are trapped in a pit of venomous snakes, I’m pretty damn sure you would do whatever your mind tells you to do rather Google or YouTube on ‘How to get out of a pit of venomous snakes?’

Strengthen your mind, upgrade your knowledge and skills, for that is what is going to make you productive in life. Set an example for yourself, be your own role model and learn from every second of your life. I am not telling you that my article is the last one you should read to get motivated, rather become a person to write an article and help others with your ideas and enrich them. For none of us are alike, we are created different and that differentiation is identified by the skills we bring to the table. Each of us possess a lot of skills but we just don’t show interest in identifying and enriching them.

I would strongly recommend some meditation, you need to find that inner peace that you threw aside. I am not asking you to become a Buddha, but all I am telling you is to realize that its time you start achieving something. Sometimes its better to isolate yourself to find the traits you possess and not aware of. If I ask you that in so many years you are living, what have you even achieved ? If you are earning now, how much have money have you saved ? If you’ve gained fame and success, are you still introducing yourself to people you meet ?

You have to choose either to go with the flow and follow your same old routine or you can be wise and go against the flow and cross all obstacles and reach your goal. Life would teach you lessons all the time but its foolish for you to learn the same lesson twice just like committing the same mistake again.


Get rid of the chains and shackles, go out to the world and prove your capability, do not ever be worried what the world is going to talk. You own your life and you lead it the way you want to, nobody has ownership of your life or on any decision you take. Tame yourself to face all challenges and overcome everything, fear not for the fall you just had or even for the depth you are further pushed to. Make sure you find a route to get back up and put up a fight and win the damn game. Never be worried that a door just shut on you and don’t wait for another door to open, instead analyze what went wrong, correct yourself and break the god damn door open and make your way in.

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